| You are out on a date and everything is going | | | | |
| great. The conversation is sparkling and the | | | | Nobody can fully understand the rhyme or |
| attraction factor is increasing by the | | | | reason when it comes to instinct. All your |
| minute. No doubt about it: the future is so | | | | senses tell you that the other person is |
| bright that the both of you may have to wear | | | | terrific but the tiny little voice somewhere |
| shades. | | | | inside of you keeps saying no. In the world |
| | | | we live in the majority usually rules but |
| So why is your intuition going off like a ten | | | | when it comes to a dating relationship it is |
| alarm fire bell. You try to dismiss it as | | | | probably best to give that tiny voice the |
| nothing more than nerves. Indeed the date | | | | final word on whether you continue dating the |
| ends and you are chomping at the bit to do it | | | | other person. |
| all over again. Still that nagging feeling | | | | |
| you have in the pit of your stomach will not | | | | Instincts have a way of picking up on things |
| go away. What do you do? | | | | which on the surface are not so obvious to |
| | | | you or other people. Can instincts be wrong? |
| Yes talking it over with a close friend or | | | | Yes but more often than not following our |
| family member may help but the chances are if | | | | instincts has steered many of us away from |
| you are confiding in more than one person you | | | | disastrous situations. How many times have we |
| will probably get a myriad of responses and | | | | heard the stories of someone who was going to |
| opinions. Besides they know less about the | | | | get on an airplane but at the last minute |
| situation than you do. There is a tendency | | | | followed their instincts and decided against |
| for many of us to try and convince ourselves | | | | it? All too often they were proven right. |
| that some outside source has the answer to | | | | |
| all of our questions. True they may have | | | | The moral of the story is better safe than |
| experience a similar situation that could | | | | sorry. That is not to say that your |
| possibly serve as a guide for you to | | | | relationship will end badly or even to imply |
| consider. But the bottom line is they can | | | | the other person has some sinister hidden |
| only help you up to a point. | | | | motives. In the long run it may come down to |
| | | | simply not being compatible. |
| That is not to say that detachment in | | | | |
| evaluating someone else's problem has no | | | | The point is to trust yourself enough to |
| value; it does. However in the final | | | | believe you have the answer to your own |
| analysis, there is only one person who can | | | | situation. Keep in mind also that your |
| make the decision and give you the answer you | | | | instinct is not trying to put a damper on |
| are looking for. As you have already guessed, | | | | your love life. More than you may realize, it |
| that person is you. | | | | only has your best interest at heart. |