| You are out on a date and everything is going great. | | | | Nobody can fully understand the rhyme or reason |
| The conversation is sparkling and the attraction | | | | when it comes to instinct. All your senses tell you |
| factor is increasing by the minute. No doubt about it: | | | | that the other person is terrific but the tiny little |
| the future is so bright that the both of you may | | | | voice somewhere inside of you keeps saying no. In |
| have to wear shades. | | | | the world we live in the majority usually rules but |
| So why is your intuition going off like a ten alarm fire | | | | when it comes to a dating relationship it is probably |
| bell. You try to dismiss it as nothing more than | | | | best to give that tiny voice the final word on |
| nerves. Indeed the date ends and you are chomping | | | | whether you continue dating the other person. |
| at the bit to do it all over again. Still that nagging | | | | Instincts have a way of picking up on things which on |
| feeling you have in the pit of your stomach will not | | | | the surface are not so obvious to you or other |
| go away. What do you do? | | | | people. Can instincts be wrong? Yes but more often |
| Yes talking it over with a close friend or family | | | | than not following our instincts has steered many of |
| member may help but the chances are if you are | | | | us away from disastrous situations. How many times |
| confiding in more than one person you will probably | | | | have we heard the stories of someone who was |
| get a myriad of responses and opinions. Besides they | | | | going to get on an airplane but at the last minute |
| know less about the situation than you do. There is a | | | | followed their instincts and decided against it? All too |
| tendency for many of us to try and convince | | | | often they were proven right. |
| ourselves that some outside source has the answer | | | | The moral of the story is better safe than sorry. |
| to all of our questions. True they may have | | | | That is not to say that your relationship will end badly |
| experience a similar situation that could possibly serve | | | | or even to imply the other person has some sinister |
| as a guide for you to consider. But the bottom line is | | | | hidden motives. In the long run it may come down to |
| they can only help you up to a point. | | | | simply not being compatible. |
| That is not to say that detachment in evaluating | | | | The point is to trust yourself enough to believe you |
| someone else's problem has no value; it does. | | | | have the answer to your own situation. Keep in mind |
| However in the final analysis, there is only one person | | | | also that your instinct is not trying to put a damper |
| who can make the decision and give you the answer | | | | on your love life. More than you may realize, it only |
| you are looking for. As you have already guessed, | | | | has your best interest at heart. |
| that person is you. | | | | |