| You are out on a date and everything is | | | | reason when it comes to instinct. All |
| going great. The conversation is | | | | your senses tell you that the other |
| sparkling and the attraction factor is | | | | person is terrific but the tiny little |
| increasing by the minute. No doubt about | | | | voice somewhere inside of you keeps |
| it: the future is so bright that the | | | | saying no. In the world we live in the |
| both of you may have to wear shades. | | | | majority usually rules but when it comes |
| So why is your intuition going off like | | | | to a dating relationship it is probably |
| a ten alarm fire bell. You try to | | | | best to give that tiny voice the final |
| dismiss it as nothing more than nerves. | | | | word on whether you continue dating the |
| Indeed the date ends and you are | | | | other person. |
| chomping at the bit to do it all over | | | | Instincts have a way of picking up on |
| again. Still that nagging feeling you | | | | things which on the surface are not so |
| have in the pit of your stomach will not | | | | obvious to you or other people. Can |
| go away. What do you do? | | | | instincts be wrong? Yes but more often |
| Yes talking it over with a close friend | | | | than not following our instincts has |
| or family member may help but the | | | | steered many of us away from disastrous |
| chances are if you are confiding in more | | | | situations. How many times have we heard |
| than one person you will probably get a | | | | the stories of someone who was going to |
| myriad of responses and opinions. | | | | get on an airplane but at the last |
| Besides they know less about the | | | | minute followed their instincts and |
| situation than you do. There is a | | | | decided against it? All too often they |
| tendency for many of us to try and | | | | were proven right. |
| convince ourselves that some outside | | | | The moral of the story is better safe |
| source has the answer to all of our | | | | than sorry. That is not to say that your |
| questions. True they may have experience | | | | relationship will end badly or even to |
| a similar situation that could possibly | | | | imply the other person has some sinister |
| serve as a guide for you to consider. | | | | hidden motives. In the long run it may |
| But the bottom line is they can only | | | | come down to simply not being |
| help you up to a point. | | | | compatible. |
| That is not to say that detachment in | | | | The point is to trust yourself enough to |
| evaluating someone else's problem has no | | | | believe you have the answer to your own |
| value; it does. However in the final | | | | situation. Keep in mind also that your |
| analysis, there is only one person who | | | | instinct is not trying to put a damper |
| can make the decision and give you the | | | | on your love life. More than you may |
| answer you are looking for. As you have | | | | realize, it only has your best interest |
| already guessed, that person is you. | | | | at heart. |
| Nobody can fully understand the rhyme or | | | | |